{"id":9965,"date":"2015-02-19T17:34:37","date_gmt":"2015-02-20T01:34:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sjcctimes.com\/?p=9965"},"modified":"2015-02-19T17:34:37","modified_gmt":"2015-02-20T01:34:37","slug":"dear-jazzy-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sjcctimes.com\/es\/9965\/opinion\/dear-jazzy-3\/","title":{"rendered":"Dear Jazzy<\/font>"},"content":{"rendered":"

I like to read your advice. You always help people. I hope you can help me. I guess my problem is I\u2019m lonely. I\u2019ll be 20 soon and I don\u2019t know what\u2019s wrong with me, but I don\u2019t have a boyfriend. I mean I\u2019ve never had a boyfriend. My mom wouldn\u2019t let me have one until I was 18, but now I still don\u2019t have one. Should I ask guys out? I don\u2019t think I should, but they are not asking me, so maybe I should. I don\u2019t meet very many that I like. My mom says I\u2019m hanging out in the wrong places, but the places she thinks I should go, I\u2019m not interested in going. No way! I might be desperate, but I\u2019m not stupid. I want a cool guy, not the kind of guys she wants me to have.<\/p>\n

Sincerely, A Little Lonely<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Dear A Little Lonely,<\/strong><\/p>\n

You should be proud of yourself. Even though you are not happy about your mother\u2019s rules, you should still follow them. They are disappointing you, but your mother loves you and only wants the best for your future.<\/p>\n

You are a single girl, and I am sure you are beautiful. You probably do not understand what your mother wants for you in a boyfriend. One day you will be appreciative of your mothers worries because mothers always want the best for their children in future.<\/p>\n

Also, you mentioned that your mother is not happy about the places you are hanging around and does not approve of your friends. A Little Lonely, you probably showed disrespect by not following rules about where to hang out and meet the right people. You have to learn that communication is important with your family. You should talk with your mother in regards to having a boyfriend. Tell her that you are thankful to have a nice mother who takes care of you and that you will respect her rules. If you follow her rules by attending the right places and hanging around the right crowd, she may be more open with you wanting to date. Tell your mother that she does not need to be worried about you, but you need to prove it to her by respecting the rules. She taught you the basic rules to life, shared her views and you should respect it if you want your mothers trust.<\/p>\n

You should also stop being desperate to find a boyfriend because you have the world in your hands. A Little Lonely, you have all the qualities that boys are looking to find in a girl. If you continue your despair, you will find the wrong guys and end up dating somebody who could potentially influence you in negative ways.<\/p>\n

A Little Lonely, I suggest working with your self- esteem. You should know that you deserve to have the best; therefore, finding boyfriends who love and respect you is important. I also recommend looking for qualities in future boyfriends, such as them being studious and attending school. Those kinds of boyfriends will provide you with motivation and will be successful in taking care of you. If you do the right things, your mom will be happy as well.<\/p>\n

Good luck,<\/strong><\/p>\n

Jazzy<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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